I’m so glad you found me. This is a special space, where I unpack the many and tangled yarns of motherhood and even humanhood, and what it means to make a Home.
My writing here describes the arc of a mama. I began, some 10 years ago, by hashing out the experience of “staying home” and putting one’s energy into such a small and humble job, when you are a modern day feminist who’s used to getting more notable shit done.
Of late, I have come out the other end of the intense mama-daze, now I’m exploring what it means to re-enter the Big Bad World of endeavor and ambition. To be a mama of older kids, where there is a bit of blessed breathing room once again.
Wherever you are on that arc, I trust you will find solace and solidarity here, and maybe a few laughs too. Welcome.
A defense, to myself above all, of the importance of making a home.
To hell with the New York Times, I’m still blushing from this review from a real, live mama:
“I was thinking you should write a book… you write so eloquently and with such passion. You’re thought-provoking, insightful, open, sincere and generous. Like a dear friend who inspires and comforts all at once. You challenge and confront. But then I thought… you have written … and it’s free for all who need it. How truly generous of you.
I still find it a strange experience to write to someone whom I do not know, but reading your posts is like a bit of soul food each day. You make the things I aspire to seem so very sensible.